Knights of St Mulumba: Patron Saint’s Day (2)
Another core dimension of the
Christian knighthood is what Lou Whitsworth, in a 1997 essay, refers to as True
Manliness, a biblical model of Christian manhood lived in Christ as examples of
godly men.
In
the documents, available in their website, The Order of the Knighthood of Our
Lord and His Holy Mother – another order of knights in the Church – note this
of a Christian knight: “‘A Knight was a man who intended to place himself
completely at the service of a noble and difficult cause, a pure and arduous
ideal. Fighting evil, promoting good, defending the weak and the oppressed
against injustice. Bringing low the arrogance of the more powerful. Courage and
unselfishness, generosity and readiness to make sacrifices, to the point of
heroism, even to the point of death, if necessary. This is the picture – the
ideal picture, let us say – of the Knight in the original meaning of the term.
Not for nothing was St. George the martyr, who fought the dragon to protect the
defenseless maiden, the prototype of the Knight, and still is.” Little wonder
then that C.S. Lewis wrote, as noted by Whitworth, that “the disparate strands
of manhood– fierceness and gentleness–can find healthy synthesis in the person
of the knight and in the code of chivalry. Here these competing
impulses–normally found in different individuals–find their union.” He,
Whitworth, goes on to expound that “were one of these two bents given full
rein, the balance required for authentic Christian manhood would be lost.
Strength and power, without tenderness, for example, give us the brute.
Tenderness and compassion without masculine firmness and aggressiveness produce
a male without the fire to lead or inspire others.”
Whitworth’s essay, which is a
review of Roberts Lewis’ book – Raising a Mordern-Day Knight – identified the
latter’s three ideals of a modern day knight. The first is A Vision for
Manhood, which is that real men reject passivity, accept responsibility, lead
courageously, and expect the greater reward.
The
second ideal is A Code of Conduct – The code for
modern-day knights comes from the pages of the Bible: loyalty, kindness,
humility, purity, servant- leadership, honesty, self-discipline, excellence,
integrity, and perseverance. Modern-day knights, he notes, must know that
absolute values exist and that the commandments of God are liberating, not
confining. The knight “needs to understand that he has a work to do that is in
keeping with his inner design. This work is not just his profession or trade,
but refers to work in his home, church, and community. Life is certainly more
than a job, and your son should hear this from you lest he get the mistaken
perception that manhood is just one duty and obligation after another. Another
responsibility for the modern-day knight is a woman to love. The code of
chivalry requires that all women be treated with respect and honor. Sons need
to see and hear from their fathers the importance of caring for women in
general and loving, leading, and honoring their wives in particular.”
The
third ideal is A Transcendent Cause; that “life is ultimately unsatisfying if
it is lived solely for self. Jesus said if you give up your life you will find
it, so if you live for a cause greater than yourself, you’ll be happy and
fulfilled.”
Of
course apart from these ideals, there are virtues that define a christian
knight today and these vary in number, depending on who is speaking or whom one
reads. However, Waitsel Smith, in his April 25, 2010, publication, identifies
some twelve of them which generally capture the submission of other writers.
These virtues include obedience, courage, integrity, purity, loyalty and
charity. The rest include defense, faith, stewardship, wisdom, humility and
righteousness. An indepth reading into the discourses on these twelve virtues may
be found on www.christianknighthood.com. The discourses are indeed profound.
In
living out these Christian ideals and virtues of the vocation of knighthood in
the catholic church, the members of the Order of the Knights of St Mulumba
Nigeria are called upon at all time to offer their time, talents and treasure
at the service of the church and society. They especially pledge themselves to
the service also of the nation.
Indeed
Nigeria, nay the world at large, needs knightly men; men who are not afraid to
confront evil; men who will be ready to uphold the dignity of the human person
and will be firm for truth and justice despite what else other forces hold; men
who are real models to their children and husbands to their wives.
BLUEPRINT Newspaper; Thur. June 18, 2015; p2
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